Simo: How to get what you want.

Why we get the opposite of what we want?

I asked myself this question many time and I couldn't understand it. I always wondering why I can't get to what I want, even if it was so easy and I have the ability to do it.

Then I was reading this book 「The Power of Your Subconscious Mind」and I found very interesting answer for this question, I think you may find it helpful for you.

I think the answer is in one word "Imagination".

In the book there where this phrase 「when your desires and your imagination are conflicting, then your imagination will win the day」.

Now what this supposed to mean? Well, I will tell you.

Never try to force your subconscious mind to do what you want. This is very important, because your subconscious mind doesn't work under pressures.

What do you mean with this? Ok I will give you an example.

Let say you are want to walk on a board with 10M length and 2M width on the ground you will make it so easily, you can also jump, run, dance and even walk on your hands if you could. No problem with that.

But what if was that board 30M high between two buildings?

Would you be able to walk, run or jump? The answer is NO.

But why not? It's the same board and the same guy, and he can't do it this time. This is because your desire in walking conflicts with your imagination that you will fall.

In the first case your imagination accepts with your desire, because there is no risk in walking on the ground. But in the second case your imagination and your desire are conflicting with each other.

And as we say you can't force you subconscious mind to do what you want, even if you have the ability to do.

You know 90% of our behaves are running by our subconscious mind, so we have to make it work for us.

So if you have an exam and you keep saying I will forget this and this so I have to study it harder, then no matter how much you study and no matter how hard you did it the fact will be that you will forget. Because you told your subconscious mind what you will happen.

So how to make my subconscious mind work with me. It's easy.

You make your imagination accepts your desires, that's all.

To make your brain work efficiently and make massive successes just relax, stop forcing your bran, and don't be nervous at all.

The key is "Imagine what you can do not what you can't do"

This is how you make your brain work for you.

I wish you luck all.